Virtue of the Month - May

Modesty

Modesty recognizes the gifts we have and those of others.

It is a challenge in today’s world to be modest in thought, word, and action. We are surrounded by temptations to listen to immodest words and ideas in music lyrics, to see immodest images on television, in magazines, or on the Internet, or to act in a way that is inappropriate. Pray constantly to the Holy Spirit for strength to avoid these temptations.

“Blessed are the pure of heart, for they shall see God.” Mt. 5:8

Let us remember that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. Each time we receive the Holy Eucharist, we become a living tabernacle. Consider that carefully when making choices. Remember, also, to treat other persons with respect and dignity.

Modesty and purity are like partners. Both of these virtues will help us live the virtue of chastity.

Let us always remember God’s Infinite Mercy. Never be afraid to ask for the graces to overcome temptation in the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

Use this easy guide to decide if something will help you to grow in modesty: Simply ask, “Is this something I would think, do, or say in the presence of Jesus?”

Modesty is about self-respect and humility. It is for boys and girls equally and is about realizing your body’s value.

He has told you what is good and what the lord requires of you: only to do justice and to love virtue and to walk modestly with your God. Micah 6:8

St. Maria Goretti gives us great example of the virtue of modesty. Her desire to remain pure led her to accept death rather than commit a sin. Take some time to read her story.

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St. Maria Goretti, from your place in Heaven, pray that I may always be modest and holy. Amen.

Here is part of a Prayer for Humility by St. Frances Cabrini. If we have humility, then we will have modesty.

“Grant that I may be free from unholy desires, and that , for your love, I may remain obscure and unknown in this world, to be known only to you.”